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Blind date: ‘I hadn’t been on a date for 10 years – I needed to break the mould’

Liaqat (left) and Karim.
Liaqat (left) and Karim. Photograph: Graeme Robertson & Jill Mead/The Guardian

Liaqat on Karim

What were you hoping for?
Good conversation and some honesty. I hadn’t been on a date for 10 years and felt I needed to break the mould. I’m glad I told Karim about that as I was nervous.

First impressions?
So handsome! I couldn’t stop staring at his eyes (I was, of course, subtle).

What did you talk about?
Being gay and coming out. Mental health. Gaza and the British press not reporting a live genocide.

Most awkward moment?
I kept on insisting that Karim have a sizzling lamb chop to himself.

Good table manners?
Lovely.

Best thing about Karim?
He listened to everything I said and reciprocated. And that he’s an opera singer!

Would you introduce Karim to your friends?
Yes, for sure.

Describe Karim in three words
Kind, honest and intelligent.

What do you think Karim made of you?
That I’m self-obsessed.

Did you go on somewhere?
There was good energy – but not romantic energy.

And … did you kiss?
Drum roll … Nah. We did hug, though.

If you could change one thing about the evening, what would it be?
It was all fab, although I may have talked about myself too much.

Marks out of 10?
8.

Would you meet again?
Probably as friends. I enjoyed his company.

Karim on Liaqat

What were you hoping for?
A good chat and a good laugh –anything more than that would be a bonus.

First impressions?
Affable and awkward – I noticed he wasn’t really looking at me.

What did you talk about?
The geopolitics of India and Pakistan. Art exhibits and museums.

Most awkward moment?
After I asked him what else he might want to know about me, he said, “I don’t really know,” and we had a long pause.

Good table manners?
Yes.

Best thing about Liaqat?
He’s open and self-aware.

Would you introduce Liaqat to your friends?
Sure, why not?

Describe Liaqat in three words
Searching, open and quirky (in a good way).

What do you think Liaqat made of you?
No clue. He didn’t seem very curious.

Did you go on somewhere?
We rode on the tube together for a few stops.

And … did you kiss?
No.

If you could change one thing about the evening, what would it be?
We’re not a match, but he’s a lovely person and we had a good time, so I wouldn’t change anything.

Marks out of 10?
I wanted a laugh and a good talk. Both were achieved. So, 10!

Would you meet again?
As friends.

Karim and Liaqat ate at Dishoom in Battersea, London SW11. Fancy a blind date? Email blind.date@theguardian.com

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