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Christine Mai-Duc

Before Lamar Odom was found unconscious at a Nevada brothel, his life had been laced with tragedy

Oct. 14--At moments, Lamar Odom seemed to lead a charmed life. Two NBA world championship rings playing for the Los Angeles Lakers. Marriage to one of television's Kardashians. His own music and film production company.

But tragedy has long clung to the troubled 35-year-old athlete, who was found unresponsive in a Nevada brothel and remains in critical condition at a Las Vegas hospital.

"Death always seems to be around me," Odom told the Los Angeles Times in 2011. "I've been burying people for a long time."

Born in the South Jamaica neighborhood of Queens, N.Y., Odom grew up during the height of the crack cocaine epidemic.

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His father, a heroin addict, left the family when Odom was young, and his mother died of colon cancer when he was 12.

But Odom fought his way out of those beginnings with the help of a prodigious talent on the basketball court. He played for the University of Rhode Island before being drafted by the Clippers in 1999 as the No. 4 overall pick.

Even as his playing career was taking off, though, he experienced more personal tragedies: His grandmother, who raised him in Queens, died in 2003, when Odom was 23.

Three years later, Odom's nearly 7-month-old son died of sudden infant death syndrome while sleeping in his crib.

Overwhelmed with grief, Odom contemplated leaving the game.

Instead, he poured himself into his various passions, including his record label, Rich Soil Entertainment, and a line of Christian-themed apparel, Son of Man.

He wore No. 7 on his jersey because his grandmother had always believed it was her lucky number. He wore a tattoo of his son, Jayden, on his chest above his heart and had an image of his mother tattooed on his back.

Before every Lakers game, Odom was known to write his family's names on his white, purple and gold Nikes: "Cathy," for his mother, "Mildred," his grandmother, and "Jayden." It was a ritual that was well-known among coaches and teammates.

Reminding himself of the traumas seemed to inspire the 6-foot-10-inch forward on the court.

"Just the way that I try to just always remember them," Odom once told The Times. "As time goes by, sometimes it's human nature to forget."

Odom was in New York for a Nike commercial shoot when his 24-year-old cousin was shot and killed in July 2011. Odom assumed many of the responsibilities his late grandmother would have: serving as head of the family, making funeral arrangements. It was a burden that weighed heavily on him.

The day after the funeral, Odom was in the back seat of an SUV on his way to Queens when the car struck a motorcyclist. Odom watched as the motorcycle careened out of control and hit a 15-year-old pedestrian, who died from head injuries the next day.

"I'm sitting in the car looking him right in the face. I'm like, 'I think he's gone,' " Odom recalled to The Times in 2011.

"I think the effects of seeing [my cousin] die and then watching this kid die, it beat me down," he told The Times then. "I consider myself a little weak. I thought I was breaking down mentally. I'm doing a lot of reflecting."

Odom credited his "very strong wife," Khloe Kardashian, as the source of his strength as he dealt with the twin tragedies. They wed in 2009, the same year the Lakers won the first of two championships. He said he owed much of his success during that period to their marriage and her stabilizing influence.

"You know how things can just line up in life?" he told Lakers.com in 2011. "I met Khloe at the perfect time. The stability she and her family bring me is why I'm at peace. I think I have gotten to a new point as a man, as a father, as a basketball player."

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