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Andrea McLean admits she still 'feels lost' after her breakdown and quitting Loose Women

When Andrea McLean walked on to the Loose Women set in May 2020, she had no idea she was about to bare
her soul on air.

Under the glare of the studio lights, the 52-year-old opened up about having a nervous breakdown – something she had previously only discussed with her friends and fellow panellists.

But despite her fear of the viewers knowing what she had been through, Andrea said it felt therapeutic to be honest and she could finally start to come to terms with her ordeal.

“Like most things in my life that I’ve been open about, it happened accidentally,” she says. “I can’t remember who asked me but they said, ‘How are you coping with [lockdown]?’ And I said, ‘Well, I’m really glad that last year,

"I had a breakdown. I’ve spent a year building my mental strength back up so that I’m actually in the best place I could possibly be to cope with something like a pandemic.’ And it kind of came out my mouth before I realised I was telling the whole world that I had a breakdown.

READ MORE: Andrea McLean reveals she hasn't kept in touch with all Loose Women co-stars since exit

Andrea has opened up about leaving Loose Women (REX/Shutterstock)

“You’ve overheated, you’ve broken down. We’re all just human beings. And I’m actually really glad I said it because we need to be more open about the fact that there are moments in our lives when we aren’t coping.

"It’s all very well to say, ‘Oh, it’s good to talk and reach out,’ but there’s still a stigma and shame, especially for women who are seen as doing well and holding it all together. And that’s the joy of Loose Women.

"You forget the people watching and you just have a conversation. But the beauty of that was I actually opened the doors for me to realise there’s no shame.”

Looking back, Andrea describes 2019 as a “really rough year” where she was trying to be the “perfect mother and wife”.

She quit the ITV talk show in December 2020 to concentrate on her mental health and spend more time with her family – husband of seven years Nick Feeney and her children Finlay, 20, and Amy, 15.

Andrea quit the ITV talk show in December 2020 (ITV)

“I’ve always been brave but I kind of lost it for a while because of various circumstances in my life and relationships that I’ve been in,” she says. “And people in my life made me feel not brave.”

“But I think, actually, the bravest thing I ever did was leave my job in my fifties because it’s a lot easier to make
a brave move when you have nothing to lose. With a bold move, potentially you have everything to lose, not just your reputation, but also financially. I’m so glad I did it.”

While Andrea is in a much better place these days, she admits she can still feel lost at times.

“I know how it feels to feel stuck, scared, burnt out and overwhelmed,” she says. “I’m a capable woman, I’m really good at what I do but I don’t know, I feel lost, I feel like I’ve kind of lost my direction.”

Since quitting Loose Women, Andrea has written a book, This Girl Is On Fire : How to Live, Learn And Thrive In A Life You Love, which she has also turned into an app and we’re seeing less of her on screen.

Andrea has been married to Nick for seven years (Instagram)

“I love what I’m doing so much and I just felt ready and I’ve been trying to keep both going at the same time,” she says of why she hasn’t been back on TV. “My energy has just grown more and more towards This Girl Is On Fire.

"The day I left Loose Women, I cried because I was leaving my friends. But when I got home, I actually got a real sense of peace because I just knew I was starting a whole new chapter. It was scary but it felt like the right thing to do.”

When asked if she watches her friends on TV, she reveals, “To be honest, I don’t watch any telly. I’m too busy working, doing longer hours and harder hours. But I still keep in touch with the ladies. Denise Welch and I were texting and I’m catching up with her tomorrow.”

When it comes to matters of the heart, Andrea couldn’t be happier with her family set-up. “When I met Nick,
I had sworn off men, as I thought, ‘I’m not very good at this,’” she says after two failed relationships with Finlay and Amy’s fathers.

“I got to the point where I thought, ‘But I’m kind of alright with that. If this is how it is, then this is how it is.’ I was in my forties then. And weirdly, right at that moment, the universe went, ‘OK, now that you’re fine on your own, here’s someone for you.’

“What I would say is, be cool with yourself and then you will find someone who is cool being with you. I don’t believe that someone completes you. You make a good team, but you choose to be with each other.”

And there is no sign of the seven-year itch for Andrea and Nick – they recently enjoyed a romantic trip to Paris and returned to the spot where Nick proposed.

Andrea wrote a book when she left Loose Women (REX/Shutterstock)

“We have a few favourite places in Paris but we went back to the bridge he proposed to me on,” says Andrea. “And we’ve been going back to that bridge every eight, nearly nine years and we put a padlock on there.”

“[Our trip] had been in the diary for ages and our flights got cancelled but we thought, ‘Right, we could cancel it all, but actually, we very rarely take a break.’ So we drove. It was nice being just the two of us.”

And Andrea sounds confident that she’s found the perfect partnership in her husband.

“There is a line in the film Forrest Gump where he says, ‘Jenny, you’re one of my best good friends,’” she says. “I sent it to him laughing and he said, ‘You know what, you’re my best friend too. I’d rather hang out with you than anybody else.’

“You can be a couple and work together and co-parent and everything else, and still feel that you’re hanging out with your best mate.”

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