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Billy Ryan & Michelle Cullen

A third of Irish women who cheat do so 'out of revenge', survey finds

A third of Irish women (34%) cheat in revenge after their partners previously strayed — according to a new survey.

Slightly fewer Irish men (26%) also ‘revenge cheat’ to get their own back from an earlier betrayal.

The vast majority of revenge cheaters (82%) said they felt justified in having an affair because their partner erred first.

More men (54%) than women (48%) are likely to own up to a revenge affair to show their partner the error of their ways.

The most common way that people revenge cheat is through meeting a new partner on a dating website or app, chosen by 42% of respondents, followed sleeping with a former lover or friend (28%), contact through social media (12%), a work romance (10%) and a pick-up at a bar or club (8%).

There has been a 12% rise in revenge cheating since the end of lockdown as the new freedoms sparking a surge in affairs.

A couple relax in the sunshine in Green Park on October 31, 2014 in London, England. (gettyimages.ie)

The results are revealed in a new survey of 2,000 people by IllicitEncounters.com, Ireland’s leading affairs site.

Being caught did not stop 44% of cheats from carrying on seeing a lover, despite telling their partner the affair was over.

The survey found that less than a quarter of people (23%) end their relationship after discovering an affair.

Far more (30%) stay with their partner and then get their revenge by having an affair of their own.

The survey found that a third of couples (32%) used lockdown to make a fresh start while stuck at home together for 18 months.

That involved confessing to a past fling for 13% of women and 10% of men.

IllicitEncounters.com sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “Revenge cheating has never been more popular in Ireland.”

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