When it comes to my bedtime routine, I can be a little extra. And if you're ever a guest in my home, you can count on being roped into a calming and comforting pre-sleep ritual that will put you in the best mood for rest. Trust me, once you romanticize your wind-down, it'll be impossible to do it any differently.
Aside from helping you learn how to sleep better, it's also just a little way to give back to yourself after a long day. Taking inspiration from these glamorous habits will make you look forward to the moments before you tuck yourself into bed.
Without further ado, here's how to bring some magic into your nighttime routine and embrace wellness in the moments before you sleep.
1. Shake Up a Sleepy Girl Mocktail
One of my favorite micro-trends to come out of 'SleepTok' this year is the sleepy girl mocktail. Not just for the girls, this recipe is a fun swap for nighttime tea and will quickly become one of your favorite drinks to end the day with.
"Instead of scrolling your phone or pouring another glass of wine, I recommend making this calming drink that feels like a treat," says wellness expert Dr. Kira Capozzolo. "My go-to recipe for this mocktail includes a ½ cup of tart cherry juice, which is a natural source of melatonin, a ½ cup of coconut water for hydration, a squeeze of lime, a drizzle of honey, and a splash of sparkling water."
She suggests garnishing the drink with an orange slice or a cinnamon stick. And if you want to take it one step further, you can also add a teaspoon of magnesium powder to support sleep.
If you're wondering when to prepare this sleep-friendly beverage, I recommend making and drinking it at least three hours before bed, in accordance with the 10-3-2-1-0 rule for sleep.
Color: Pink
Tie the vibe together with this sweet Bow Tumbler Glass from Lepelcub for a hint of dopamine decor before bed.
Color: Gold / White
I have a small corner with everything I need for my sleepy girl mocktail, and this Stainless Steel Cocktail Tool Set & Marble Stand might soon join the space.
Color: Creole Pink / Stainless Steel
Serve up your sleepy girl mocktail in style, or use this Ray Tray Disco Tray by Design Letters to organize all the ingredients together in one neat corner.
2. Tuck Yourself Into a Luxury Bedscape
Slipping under your sheets should feel completely relaxing. And if it doesn't instantly soothe your mind, then perhaps it's time to give your bedscape a spruce by investing in bedding brands that deliver on comfort.
Sleep expert Dr. Leah Kaylor tells me that you can't go wrong with layering your bed in soft textures. "Think crisp sheets, a fluffy duvet, and a cozy throw blanket," she says. "Then, slip into silk nightwear or lay your head on a satin pillowcase —these little luxuries elevate the feeling of indulgence."
If you're a hot sleeper, then the key is to dress your bed in cooling fabrics. My advice is to buy bamboo bedding now and switch to silk once winter truly sets in for the year.
Color: Charcoal
Just imagine sliding into bed and pulling this gorgeous and buttery Silk Double Duvet Cover over yourself. That's pure comfort.
Color: Olive Green
I love this 100% Mulberry Silk Gift Set from Silk Addict. And, trust me, it's so smooth you'll want to treat yourself to it first, before you gift it to other loved ones.
Color: Navy
This Essential Organic Cotton Robe from The White Company is so fluffy, yet unburdeningly light, you won't want to wear anything else before bed.
3. Indulge in Self Care
Upon educating myself on how to master sleep hygiene, I have begun to organize separate spaces in my home that completely cater to sleep. And so, a dedicated PM self-care routine shelf has come to be in my bathroom.
"Rather than rushing through washing your face, treat it as a mini spa ritual," says Kira. "Warm water, a gentle cleanser, maybe even a facial massage or soothing mask. Think of it less like hygiene and more like pampering."
And since sleep experts recommend a hot shower before bed, you can introduce some subtle aromatherapy into this practice. "A short soak with Epsom salts or essential oils can mimic the vibe of a spa bathroom," says Leah. "Plus, it will lower your core temperature afterward and prime your body for deeper rest."
My new favorite way to end the day is by dark showering. And then following up with a cooling skin and body care routine to cap off this wellness ritual.
Size: 60 ml
Ever since I started using this Cica Sleeping Mask by LANEIGE, I find myself feeling undeniably at ease before sleep. The key is to massage a dot of product into your hands and inhale the fragrance first.
Scent: Lavender, Camomile, Vetivert
A pillow mist might seem like a thoughtless luxury, but with the right scent, it can be one of the best things to aid sleep. This Beautiful Sleep Pillow Mist features top notes of lavender, making it a perfect add-on to your rest routine.
Scent: Warm Cedarwood, Grapefruit & Bergamot, Rose & Hibiscus
Since I only recently swapped my night bath for pre-bed showers, I'm fairly new to the shower steamer game. However, I'm already obsessed with this set from Oliver Bonas!
4. Curate a Sensory Wind Down
Winding down plays a crucial role in preparing for rest, and Kira tells me that hushing the senses one by one is a great practice. "Put on a calming playlist, light a candle, or read a few pages of a book you love," she advises.
"These sensory cues become signals to your brain that it’s bedtime. And you can also incorporate some slow grounding movements for your body."
She explains that just five minutes of gentle stretching, yoga poses, or deep breathing not only eases tension from the day but also tells your nervous system it’s safe to relax.
Stress and anxiety are two of the most common culprits for trouble sleeping through the night. So it's very important to set some time aside to calm your senses and wind down for sleep.
Finish: Copper
Lumie's Halo Lamp has been designed for sleep light therapy to help regulate your sleep and wake cycle, while also setting the ambiance for rest in your bedroom.
Color: Pink
If you like the idea of grounding your body before bed, then this compact Yoga Mat from H&M is the perfect accessory for some stretching movements pre-sleep.
Format: Hardcover
I'm currently revisiting the pages of Ikigai, and while I love a good fiction read during the day, a less-heavy read like this is definitely better by night.
5. Set Your Intentions in a Journal
As someone who used to be a journal naysayer, I stand humbly corrected. I have always had a junk journal for more nostalgic, creative freedom. But it has been almost two months since I began gratitude journaling, and it's such a wholesome way to end the day.
Taking a moment to count your blessings and reflect on the positives from the day is a wonderful practice to go to sleep feeling thankful and focused. Kira also recommends gratitude journaling at night.
"Keep a beautiful notebook by your bed and write down three things you’re grateful for or a few gentle reflections from the day," she says. "It shifts your mind into calm, positive territory before sleep."
And this romanticized night routine would be incomplete in the absence of a soft candle scented with soothing bedroom fragrances. The warm glow of a candle, a few minutes of gratitude, and an inviting scent bring the moment together and the day to a close — tell me that doesn't sound like a recipe for sweet dreams.
Format: Paperback
For when you need a moment of release, Keri Smith's 'Wreck This Journal' will be your literary rage room and space for emotional liberation.
Burn Time: 60 Hours
D.S. & Durga's Dream Lychee is a beautiful bedside candle with top notes of rose water and cyclamen, heart notes of lychee and lily, and base notes of musk and sandalwood.
Format: Hardcover
If you don't have a night diary yet, this Green Shoots Gratitude Journal by Papier is a great choice. Featuring prompts and free space, you can pick your way to wind down.
Now, all this romanticizing could go to waste if you and your partner are incompatible sleep partners. Prefer different room temperatures, mattress softness, and more? Sleep divorce might be your saving grace.
